Is this a midlife crisis or a new beginning? My wife, at 57, has decided to reinvent herself, and it’s been quite the journey. We’ve been married for over 35 years, with two grown children. I thought I knew her inside out, but lately, she’s been full of surprises. It’s not about arguments or disagreements. No, it’s more about her newfound zest for life that leaves me both amused and bewildered.